This article was brought to my attention through one of the Facebook group called Dementia Knowledge Exchange Global. I have a few other articles on this blog about LGBTQ issues in aging and in care, but haven’t yet focused on LGBTQ carers so this article is a great addition! It is the viewpoint of the author, David, as a gay man caring for his father and what he observes in this role. A good sociocultural piece on how LGBTQs can be stigmatized and overlooked, even when the issues aren’t about them.
Please note that I have edited some of the content to better fit with this blog; you can read the original article by clicking on the title. This article originally appeared on CaregiverRelief.com, a website that offers a host of information and support for carers, with a focus on dementia.
If you want to check out some of my related articles:
LGBTQ people with dementia should not be forced back into the closet
Older LGBTQ still experience prejudice from care staff
Housing experiences of older LGBTQs
By
David Heitz on September 12, 2015
There’s a double-edged sword when it comes to LGBT people and caring.
First, LGBT people often fall into the carer role. Many caregivers, gay or not, will attest that when you don’t have children and/or a spouse, you tend to be elected mom’s or dad’s carer by your siblings. The idea is that you don’t have kids to look after, you don’t have a spouse to coo over, so “it’s just easier” for you to do it.
In some cases, these gay and lesbian carers are married. And they do have children. It’s just that their siblings and their relatives don’t legitimize them. Continue reading →
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